How to achieve an anal orgasm
Maybe you've experienced an anal orgasm, maybe you'd like to but don't know how - or maybe you're just curious? Read on as we guide you through the infamous orgasm, with great tips on how to get closer to it!
What is an anal orgasm?
An anal orgasm is an orgasm that is achieved through anal stimulation. It can be achieved in different ways, for example by penetration, by using anal sex toys or by using fingers, and it is entirely individual how much anal stimulation it takes to achieve an anal orgasm - just as it is entirely individual how an anal orgasm feels.
Who can have an anal orgasm?
There are many outdated ideas about anal orgasm - especially who can achieve it and who can't. It's quite simple - an anal orgasm can be achieved by all genders. Both people with vulvae and people with penises have sensitive zones and points in the anus - the a-spot and the prostate respectively - that can lead to an orgasm when stimulated anal.
What is the prostate?
People with a penis have the prostate: a sensitive gland located just below the bladder and accessible through the anus. Anal stimulation of the prostate can lead to an anal orgasm.
Location of the prostate
What is the A point?
In people with a vulva, there is the A-spot: an erogenous zone consisting of sensitive tissue located between the cervix and the bladder - approximately the same place as the prostate - which is why the area can be stimulated by using fingers, sex toys, and vaginal and anal intercourse.
*The location of the A-point is marked in orange
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5 tips for achieving anal orgasm
If you want to experience an anal orgasm, there are some good tips to ensure a good experience. Remember that it should always feel good - both before, during and after.
1. Take it easy
You're not in a hurry! It's a good idea to move slowly when trying to achieve an anal orgasm. It's a process that often requires preparation, as the area around the anus can be extra sensitive - and it can therefore be a painful experience if you move quickly.
2. Warm up the anus slowly
You can prepare your anus for anal stimulation by starting small - both in terms of size and depth - and slowly working your way up. For example, start with a small silicone butt plug and then see how it feels. We recommend our Trainy set - a great starter kit with 3 different sizes that allows you to slowly work your way up.
3. Remember the lubricant
We do not produce natural lubricant in the anus, which is why we always recommend lubricant for anal stimulation. By using lubricant, you can avoid unpleasant friction in the anus and you reduce the risk of tears. It is a good idea to use lubricant specifically suitable for anal intercourse, for example. water-based Anal Thick lubricant from System Jo , which ensures extra glide and allows you to focus on your pleasure - it is essential that you relax if you want to achieve an anal orgasm.
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4. Try stimulating multiple areas simultaneously
You can increase the chance of an anal orgasm by stimulating several areas of the body at the same time. For example, try stimulating the clitoris - with a vibrator, fingers or similar - while stimulating anally. You can experiment with our bundle: Small but Strong, which includes butt plugs, lubricant and a vibrator in one package , which gives you a good opportunity to stimulate all the way around. You can also stimulate the penis at the same time as stimulating the prostate, for example. with your hand, a penis sleeve or something third. Whatever feels good to you and maximizes the pleasure - do it!
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5. Be honest
If you are trying to achieve an anal orgasm through sex with partners, remember that the experience will be better and safer for everyone if you are honest about how it feels. When having anal sex, it is important to guide your partners on things like pace and depth - what feels good is individual and your partner(s) may need feedback from you.
Also remember to communicate before and after sex. The more open you are, the better your partners can meet your desires and needs. Communication is key!
Now remember...
What feels good is different for all of us. You can only achieve an anal orgasm if pleasure is present, so prioritize and focus on getting to know your body when trying new things sexually. Sex should only be good - for both body and mind. Enjoy!
Read also: The different types of orgasms (for people with a vulva)
Also read: Your complete guide to using butt plugs