Sex Positions: The Ultimate Guide to Greater Pleasure
There are an infinite number of sex positions that suit different bodies, desires and needs. Sex positions that provide different experiences, types of stimulation and forms of pleasure. Yet many of us get stuck in the same good sex positions and we often forget to vary or try something new.
What is the best sex position?
There are countless sex positions, some more demanding than others. Not all positions work for everyone, so if you try something and it just doesn't feel right, just move on to another position. The best sex position isn't the most creative, ambitious, or physically challenging, but the one that just feels good - and that could just be missionary!
In this guide, we have compiled an overview of naughty sex positions that may inspire and guide you - regardless of whether you are experienced or new to the game.
Classic sex positions
Many of us already know the names of several of the classic sex positions - but be careful not to confuse classic with boring! They are classics for a reason and there is often a lot of pleasure to be had in the good old sex positions. Here are some of our favorites:
Doggystyle:
Ah, the good old - if you're looking for naughty sex positions, doggystyle is a good idea. One partner stands or lies with their back to their partner and the other penetrates from behind. Doggystyle is great for penetrative sex with a partner and the sex position is perfect for penetration with both a penis and a strap-on .
In doggy style, you can easily penetrate vaginally or anally, and you can simultaneously see and touch other areas of your partner, which are extra hot for both of you.
Read guide: How to achieve an anal orgasm
Ride:
Another classic sex position that you shouldn't underestimate is the good old horseback riding! One partner lies on their back and the other sits on top of them, facing their partner. Whether you're the one lying down or sitting on top, this sex position allows for deep penetration, which feels great for both partners. At the same time, the sex position gives you both an amazing view, where you can see each other's bodies, faces and have cute eye contact, which can make this position extra intimate.
Tip: If you want to spice up this sex position, you can try the reversed version - that is, the person on top turns around, but the butt of the person laying down is facing down. It gives a different, very sexy view and often hits some good spots <3
Good sex positions for deep penetration
If you're looking for great sex positions that allow for extra deep penetration, we've put together some suggestions for you here. Remember that bodies are different, so how deep feels comfortable for each of us is different. It's important to feel your way around - both for yourself and for your partner.
The butterfly:
The butterfly is great for getting really deep into your partner. The sex position is for two people, where one person lies on their back with their legs up on the other person's shoulders, who penetrates either vaginally or anally. By raising their legs, you get better access to either the vagina or anus, which often fits better in height with the penis or strap-on dildo that way. The butterfly is also a good sex position for you who want to have eye contact with your partner. The position gives you the opportunity to see and touch each other in other places at the same time as the penetration.
Tip: The butterfly is a good sex position for those who want to use sex toys during penetration. Especially for the person lying down, it is easy to hold, for example, a vibrator without it getting in the way.
The crab:
There are several fun sex positions that provide extra deep penetration - not only the butterfly, but also other friends from nature, namely the crab.
The crab works really well for sex with yourself, with a partner, or with multiple partners. It's a sex position that describes a sex position where you stand on flat feet and flat hands - like when you do the crab walk.
In this position you can sit on top of a penis, a strap-on dildo , a suction cup dildo or whatever you like and experience deep penetration that hits all the sweet spots.
In the crab position, you can control the pace and how deep you want to be penetrated, thus avoiding discomfort. If you try the crab with a partner, you can decide which way you turn - both work well and give cute angles.
Good sex positions for oral sex
(M)oral support is mega key - and there are many fun sex positions that can make oral sex hotter than it already is!
Head - with height differences!
Ok ok, maybe you're familiar with the expression giving/getting head - it really just describes licking each other. But! It doesn't have to happen on your back in a bed (although that's nice too) - try experimenting with height differences and different positions. Try, for example, where one person sits upright on the edge of a table, chair or similar and the other kneels in front - it gives the recipient a better opportunity to watch and you can look each other in the eye if you want.
If you want it to be extra delicious when you lick each other, you can try applying some flavored water-based lubricant !
Oral galore:
Oral galore is a good sex position for oral sex with multiple partners, but can also be used by two people. Person 1 sits on the bottom, where person 2 stands/sits over, with their heads down, so that the two people's faces touch each other's abdomens - you can compare it to the sex position 69. Here it is now possible for person 3 to give oral sex to person 2 together with person 1.
It's best described in the illustration, but it's a sexy and pleasurable way to have oral sex where all parties are included.
Mix and match - good sex positions for groups
If there are more than two people, you can often easily combine several sex positions so that everyone experiences pleasure at the same time. For example, you can combine good sex positions for penetration with sex positions for oral sex - whatever makes sense to mix and match for you and feels great!
69 + riding:
This is one of those naughty sex positions that works really well for three people! In this position, everyone is stimulated simultaneously, either through penetration or oral sex.
Person 1 lies on his back, with person 2 sitting on top and riding person 1. Person 3 sits over person 1's face - remember to look out for each other and make sure everyone is okay and comfortable. Person 1 can now give oral sex to person 3, who gives oral sex to person 2.
Sex positions like this are super hot because everyone is included equally and everyone has a sexy view!
Doggy + oral:
Another good combination of sex positions is doggy + oral! Sex positions like this again allow for everyone to be included and - again - with a good view for everyone.
Person 1 penetrates person 2 in the doggystyle sex position (read more further up) - penetration is either vaginal or anally. Person 3 sits in front of person 2 and gives them oral sex while they are being penetrated. What is extra sexy about sex positions like this is that person 1 and person 3 have the opportunity to make eye contact while they satisfy a third person - it can be really hot(!!!)
The only right way to have sex…
Is the way that feels good to you! What feels good varies greatly - depending on who you are, but it can also change from day to day or what mood you are in.
Try to let go of the fixed frameworks that we are so often stuck in - and notice what you feel like doing right now. If any of the positions seem boring, consider whether there are small adjustments that can make it sexier for you before moving on to the next position - for example, large height differences can often affect the experience of a position.
Also read: Five good positions for penetrative sex if there is a height difference
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