What is nurumassage?

Have you heard of nuru massage? It's a form of massage that creates a special intimacy between giver and receiver. Learn more about nuru massage in our guide here

What is nuru massage?

Originating in Japan,nuru massage is an erotic form of massage that involves a lot of lubrication - hence the name "nuru", which is Japanese for "smooth". In nuru massage, you don't just use your hands, but your whole body to massage. Traditionally, a seaweed-based nuru gel is used to massage, but you can also use different types of lubricants or massage oil.

Nuru massage is a great tool to provide an in-depth and sensual experience. It can be a way to explore massage in a new way, break the routine or create a different connection with your partner(s). Read along as we go through the steps of nuru massage, from preparation to techniques and tips that can enhance the experience for both giver and receiver.

Preparing for nuru massage

It's most comfortable to perform nuru massage on a soft surface, such as a bed or similar. Since you'll also need some lubrication to create the most gliding sensation, it's a good idea to use towels or a waterproof sheet if you want to perform the massage on the bed.

As mentioned, nuru gel is traditionally used, but thicker forms of lube or massage oil are also ideal. Here you can use the silicone-based lubricant Überlube from Peech, which provides a smooth and pleasant sensation. The All-In-One massage lubricant from System Jo is also an obvious choice as it provides a long-lasting gliding effect .

If you prefer a massage oil with a light scent, try this massage candle that creates a pleasant massage oil when heated. The candle can be both a great way to create a sensual mood and after about 20 minutes it will also create enough oil for a massage. Last but not least, there is this cannabis massage oil. Massage oil contains hemp seed oil, which both nourishes the skin and creates a soothing sensation. Whether you use lube or massage oil, it is recommended to heat the lubricant first. This is easily done by holding the container under the hot tap for a while.

During the nuru massage

During a nuru massage, both the giver and receiver of the massage should remove all clothing and apply massage oil or lube - this reduces friction and makes the massage more comfortable. You can take turns being the giver and receiver, and the receiver can start by lying flat on their back. You then start the massage by making gliding movements with your hands, arms and upper body. You can alternate between gentle, sweeping strokes and more targeted pressure. The upper body is particularly good for nuru massage, as it's easier to distribute pressure evenly over the recipient's body. At the same time it also contributes to a more intimate and sensual atmosphere.

Tempo is also an important factor in nuru massage. By using slow movements, you create a tantalizing atmosphere and intensify the sensual experience. Slow movements allow the giver to explore the receiver's body while gradually building up tension.

After the massage

But it's not a given that a nuru massage should be a prelude to or lead to sex. That's why it's also a good idea to set expectations first and feel if you want the massage to lead to sex or if it should "only" be a massage.

It's important to communicate openly and agree on your boundaries to ensure that both parties feel safe and comfortable throughout the massage. Whether you use nuru massage as a prelude to sex or just as a form of massage, a nice ending can be a shared bath to round off the moment in a relaxed and intimate way.

Read also: 5 erogenous zones (that aren't the genitals)

Also read: Guide to partner massage