Which dildo should I choose?

There are many types of dildos, but which one is right for you? Read our guide here and learn how to pick the right one for you

What should I consider before choosing? 

There are three things to consider when choosing a dildo: material, shape and size.

Your dildo should be made of a material that you like the feeling of and are comfortable with. The material itself can also have unique properties such as being fit for heating or cooling. Dildos vary greatly in shape. Some are perfectly smooth, some are curved and others have patterns such as grooves and buds. Last but not least, the size is, of course, important for how the experience will be.

Material

Most dildos are made of silicone or glass, but there are also some more exciting materials out there, such as stone or crystal. A silicone dildo is flexible and feels nice, making it easy to use. It's a great material because it adapts quickly to the temperature of the body. If you want to start out soft, silicone is a good choice.
If you are looking for more intense stimulation, you should choose a glass or metal dildo. As the material keeps its shape, you can aim more precisely and hit the spot every time. Glass and metal also have the advantage that they can be heated or chilled. You can place the dildo in hot or cold water before use for a completely different and titillating feeling.
A crystal or stone dildo always stands out from the crowd, and for good reason. Crystal is completely natural and free from harmful chemicals. Dildos like these also look gorgeous, making them versatile in a completely different way. For example, they're great for massaging the whole body, and they often fit into the décor without attracting undue attention.

Shape

Maybe you want a completely standard dildo, which has a sinewy shape. This can be good if you're into simple stimulation. If you need it for anal sex, a dildo without curves and bends is usually a good choice. A dildo with a curved shape is ideal for stimulating the G-point, which is why many dildos out there are designed with curves.
They can also have grooves, buds, bumps and so on. Yes, there are many words to describe them, and it can be difficult to make up your mind. If this is your first dildo, you can always choose a smooth one to help you get used to the feeling. If you're adventurous, go ahead and pick one with a more interesting shape.
Some have pull-out handles or a grip at the end to make them easier to handle. This can be great if you want the flexibility to reach a particular spot. This design also ensures that you always have a good handle on the dildo, so it doesn't slip away in the heat of the moment.
Honestly, there's no wrong choice. It's easy to overthink it and choose something you don't really want. Just as you can choose based on the expectation of a certain feeling, you can also use your sense of aesthetics. If it appeals to you visually, there's a greater chance that you'll enjoy using it.

Size

Of course, it's important to choose a size that suits you. If you're a beginner, feel free to go for a smaller dildo. Remember to consider both circumference and length. Some are designed to provide intense G-spot stimulation without being particularly long, while others can give the sensation of being filled out completely. If you like the feeling of being filled out, choose one with a wider girth.

To vibrate or not to vibrate

Glass and stone obviously can't be charged, but many models are more than just dildos – they're also vibrators. This is a completely different ballpark than if you're just after a dildo. However, it can be nice to choose one that also vibrates.

The best thing you can do for yourself is to choose based on instinct. If you look at a dildo and it just feels right, it'll often be able to satisfy your needs. Listen to yourself, and go for something you'll appreciate. It could be a friend for life.